Saturday, March 08, 2014

Love (Shit) Happens...


You came into my life like a storm
Intriguing me to question by own norm
I was on a roller-coaster when you were around
And now that it has come to an end, I am not that proud

I miss your texts, I miss your humor ,
I miss your voice, I miss your cheeks – so tender
You cajoled me, challenged me, questioned me galore
Now that you are done, my heart, mind and body are a-tore

I don’t know whether this is craziness or love
I don’t know why my heart’s running after yours like a dove
I don’t’ know why, I don’t know why
My heart-burns just make me wanna cry

I wish I could say how much I adore, how much I care
Life’s so short and definitely not fair
I wish we had some more time together
I think now that I lost the opportunity forever

Oh please come back, can you come back?
Be mad at me , abuse me or give me a whack
Here’s me shouting to the top of my voice
I fell in love with you, and I don’t think I had a choice

Wednesday, July 24, 2013

Yes - that is me. Some people started believing that I am mexican, some thought I am not Indian....and the best comment came from my mom - that i looked like a monk :D


Stole this one from a friend's post in Facebook.

Are you a guy? Tough luck bro - Neha

I have seen so many people talking about how difficult it is for a girl to survive in a male dominating society. Well it's true to a greater extent. But that doesn't mean that we girls take the feminism flag every time and abuse guys. They have a difficult life too.

I have seen them suffer so many times just because they are, well, men. No matter what they do in a girl's presence, their intentions are doubted. Well I believe that they should be allowed to think whatever they want to, for you cannot really change that. But we girls do the same too. It's a kind of secret code and thus I won't reveal what we really think in our mind about a guy (or even a girl for that matter in spite of being perfectly straight). When a guy offers to give a lift to a girl, they say "chance maar raha hai". If he doesn't offer, then he is a jerk. Ah poor guys.

Today I was waiting for a cab to go to the class. There was one guy standing right ahead of me. We were waiting for almost 10 minutes before one empty cab finally arrived. The cab guy didn't stop in front of him, but he stopped in front of me. Asked me where I wanted to go. I saw that guy come running to the cab. I let him ask the cab guy first as that was only fair. The cabwala refused him and took me.

Last weekend, I was coming back from some place. There was a guy sitting next to me in the flight. His friends were sitting right behind us. He tried 2-3 times to talk to me, just tried, but didn't succeed as I kind of carry that intimidating look with me wherever I go. Especially when I travel as I don't like to be disturbed. And flight is the only place where I get a peaceful sleep. And I didn't want to compromise on that. It was a two hour flight. After we landed, his friends very bluntly asked him why he didn't talk to me. And I heard it. He was embarrassed. Very embarrassed.

A friend met with an accident. She rammed her bike into a car. It was her fault entirely as she lost balance. But onlookers started abusing the guy even though he was being sweet to her and trying to help her. His good gesture was mistaken as his error and poor fellow had to listen to everyone around him. He eventually took my friend to a nearby clinic. Thankfully she was not hurt much, but it was still a good deed. He didn't even take any damages from her. Insured car maybe, but still, WTH.

And every damn time, they are expected to carry heavy bags, or open the car/restaurant door, impress the girl, be funny, can't afford to be boring even a bit, can't praise other girls, have to compliment girls moderately, do hundreds of the things to make her fall in love with them, spend money on them, earn money for everyone - phew!

Poor guys. Thank God I am not a guy. I can be as lazy as I want to be. The biggest advantage of being a girl. Really. There are hardly any guys who are really out of a girl's league. If a guy is single, and a girl is even average looking and she likes him, he will say yes to her in all probabilities. But she won't ask him. Ever. And she gets away with it. If he doesn't have guts to ask her out, someone else will. She will never run out of options, while he gets just a few options in any case. A guy's ugly is a girl's cute.

Dear feminists, please leave them alone. Really. They are mostly cute.

Tuesday, January 22, 2013

Officially Kickstarting the search for my lady

6 am: Tringggg...there rings my alarm clock. The heart wishes to cuddle for 10 more minutes; the mind doesn’t want to miss the morning jog. 7 am: It’s the routine cereal for breakfast; the heart wants a hamburger with extra cheese; the mind reinstates that a burger may nullify the work out. 8 am: the heart wants to drive a Porsche to work; the mind quotes the rising gas prices. 9 am: I kick start the day with conference calls and meetings; the heart wishes to catch some more sleep; the mind reviews the client background, needs, and resources. 5 pm: My heart pedals hard for a 28 year old with little managerial experience; my mind portrays me as a confident, knowledgeable, and open minded professional. 8 pm: I am back to home; the heart wishes to spend quality time with my folks; the mind mulls over tomorrow’s presentation. The journey of life encompasses similar instances that mark the indecision - to either be zealous enough to go with the heart or be analytical enough to go with the mind. Thankfully, both my heart and mind are in sync on one of the most important decision of my life - to choose my Mrs Right :) 

Born in a traditional Indian family, I was nurtured with basic Indian values by my parents: to be honest with every job, to never give up, to help the needy, and to lead a meaningful life for the benefit of my family and society. These values sum up the principles that I keep close to my heart and the very rules govern my every plan and its execution.  I treat each day as a bundle of opportunities- to learn, to explore, and to grow. I can safely say that I have made optimal use of these opportunities and have grown immensely on every facet of my persona (at least I try to….).

Education is given utmost priority in my family and I went to the best schools in India and the US. Professionally, I am ambitious and always strive for challenging the obvious (I hope my MBA professors are listening). Currently I am making the most of my full-time job in Chicago, IL but I intend to start my own chain of restaurants soon - once the time is right (so if you love food : brownie points for you…if you know how to cook : triple brownie points for you).

Two things that I love : Mouth-watering kebabs and Indian Music

Two things that I hate : Hypocrisy and Hyper-tension

Now the fun stuff….

I sing: I was the lead singer of two rock bands : we sang fusion rock. We broke naturally as we moved out to different places for work, but my heart still pumps to go back and sing my throat out.

I act: While music connected me with people, dramatics acquainted me with the stark realities. I have a penchant for relating to the characters that I portray and have gradually become more sensitive and less discriminatory towards people from ethnically and racially diverse backgrounds.

I write: http://varun-verma.blogspot.com/ - Please let me have your feedback.

I train: fitness was not my cup of tea until my friends acquainted me with the idea of working-out. I train daily and I am on a weight loosing spree for the last 6 months (See what marriage plans can do to you). I have lost 20 pounds since I started training.

I cook: Yeah! Thanks to my mom, I can cook Indian and Italian.

I dance: and I am very bad at that.

I joke: Laughter is infectious and I believe it to be the best aphrodisiac. My friends tell me that I am the goofiest characters you will ever find on planet earth.

What are my expectations from my Mrs. Right?

If you enjoyed reading until this point, then we should talk. No-one is perfect and I am no-one (kidding). I am just looking for a normal girl who shares similar family values, is well educated, has a positive attitude towards life and understands the meaning of hard-work. Does that sounds like you?















Thursday, April 05, 2012

SMEAL MBA..A Journey to Remember for Life....























Written in Collaboration with my awesome classmate- Kelly Burns.


August 9, 2010 was our first day at this great institution,

When Smeal Quest kick-started our orientation.

Pre-term accounting kept us on our toes;

MBA Action brought us all close.

Our first MBA party was at Mad Mex and we were loud;

The pre-term accounting exam results made us not so proud.


Official classes greeted us as we began Mod 1;

The first thing we learned was ‘what gets rewarded gets done.’

Balance sheets and income statements ruled our lives;

The 8 a.m. classes were cutting us like knives.

Team assignments and deadlines were the norm;

We aced Statistics because the review session rested the storm.

Our class now communicated using a 3 point presentation;

Before we could realize, it was time for career immersion.


Mod 2 started on a high note;

Thanks to the end of Mod 1 party at Brian, Andrew and Joe's.

Managerial Accounting homework always required several tries;

@Risk squirrels made regular appearances in all of our lives.

Thanks to Dr. Crocker, Microeconomics was never complex;

And who knew that the Big Mac could be an index?

Late nights spent on assignments and studying required constant motivation;

Post-final exams, it was time for a much-needed vacation.


Mod 3 welcomed us as we entered a new year;

We were missing the football tailgates already, thanks to Claire.

Marketing and Supply Chain grew our learning tree;

We could make any business work with a positive NPV.

While some classmates fine-tuned their global perspectives.

Others were busy locking down summer internships.

We were overwhelmed by assignments, with no idea when they were due;

Finally global immersion came to our rescue!


Mod 4 gave us a deep understanding of Porter’s Five Forces;

Never in our lives had we taken so many courses.

Learning from Dr. Jordan was like a dream;

Thanks to Dr. Trevino, we are now more ethical and supreme.

Exec Panel included presentations about HTC;

Time had flown so quickly, we were half done the MBA Program already.


It was the 2nd year of MBA now;

We were all ready to take our final bow.

Some of us had secured full time jobs, while others were still flouting in the clouds;

But together we are all tremendously Penn State proud.

It was now time to greet the smiling faces of the first years;

We felt accomplished since we made it to our second year.


At the start of November, the Penn State spirit was shaken;

The Sandusky Scandal left us feeling our pride had been mistaken.

But We Are more than the crimes of one man,

And together through the Blue Out we took a stand.

For all the victims of child sex abuse,

We gathered our funds, to be put to good use.

While the media has tried to cast our entire University in a negative light,

We still stand united, forever Penn State blue and white.


In January we mourned the passing of Coach Joseph Vincent Paterno;

All week the lights in Beaver Stadium shone over his statue like a halo.

‘A Memorial For Joe’ provided us with a sense of closure;

His family’s lasting positive impact on Penn State will be impossible to ever truly measure.


Now our class stands at the beginning of Mod 8;

The clock is counting down to our graduation date.

Over the past two years we have learned so much;

By classmates, professors and staff, our lives have been touched.

After two Chinese New Year, Thanksgiving, and Diwali celebrations,

Just several weeks remain before our graduation.

Thank you Smeal for transforming our lives;

Thank you Smeal for filling our hearts with pride.

In retrospect, these past two years have passed in the blink of an eye;

We will say ‘adios’ for now, because we hate the word goodbye.

Thursday, March 22, 2012

My life now has a meaning ..thank you Mother Teresa

People are unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered. Love them anyway.

If you do good, people may accuse you of selfish motives. Do good anyway.

If you are successful, you may win false friends and true enemies. Succeed anyway.

The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.

Honesty and transparency make you vulnerable. Be honest and transparent anyway.

What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight. Build anyway.

People who really want help may attack you if you help them. Help them anyway.

Give the world the best you have and you may get hurt. Give the world your best anyway.

Saturday, February 25, 2012

Express your Love

Her smile as fresh as spring
Her eyes, divine like wine
She's the girl I adore, She's the one I love
I am pumping for her like a dove
Oh sweetheart, how can you be so adorable
I want to have you, not a collectible

Her presence makes me go numb
Her absence makes me go dumb
She's the girl I dream all night
She's the girl with I'd dare not fight
The look in your eyes, those lips that never lie
Oh sweetheart, how can you be so adorable
I want to have you, not a collectible

God made you with a lot of grace
I'm only thinking about you, and that's gaining pace
My life without you, is like a shoe without a lace
You look like a princess, walk like a doll
Give me a chance lady, I'll never let you fall
Oh sweetheart, how can you be so adorable
I want to have you, not a collectible

I love you, I love you my princesss
I will love you all my life
Wish I had the guts to say so with pride
Life goes on and soon sometime you'll realize
There was this guy who always wanted you as a prize










Friday, February 24, 2012

I am scared


I am scared,
of the people around me that laugh
of the silence around me that barks
of the emotions that refuse to go away
of the pre-dispostions that come in my way
I am scared oh dear lord, I am scared of these times
Will I ever get a chance to change my life

I am scared,
of the way people talk to me
of the way my mind is never set free
of the trials and turbulations we face
of the trends and styles my friends craze
I am scared oh dear lord, I am scared of these times
Will I ever get a chance to change my life

I am scared,
of the expecations that haunt me
of this excruciating air that surrounds me
of the lonliness , of the sadness
of the failures that leave me bereft
I am scared oh dear lord,
scared of this ubiquitous fear that cuts me like a knife
Will I ever get a chance to change my life